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I actually don't really wish for anything, especially those in the previous posting (Sorry Willy!). It's nice to think "Hey~ good things will come along by itself eventually!" I'm NOT like that. I like to be practical and don't let chance get in my way. I hit it hard and I hit it good.
Previous post:
I wish for Santa to give me...
- ...better pillow to sleep on! (I'll find time to buy it at Walmart)
- ...ipod to listen on while working out! (it's only 50$..)
- ...Canon EOS 5D Mark II Digital camera! (not too necessary)
- ...MUCH FASTER computer to play my games! (will only fuel addiction)
- ...a super doggy! (I got my Eeyore and Nemo thanks)
- ...sexier body for this coming summer! (likely if I continue on my harsh regime)
- ...cute sexy loving boy to cuddle with during the cold winter! (this ain't too hard for me! =P)
- ...a lasting and loving relationship! (how much effort will determine this)
- ...Willy!~ (lol~ cute as he is, he's halfway around the world and with his One)
That aside, I will still continue this "Wishing" for special occasions like birthdays and praising to Buddha before the new years. Gotta give into it just for the heck of it. =P
I wished and will continue to wish for"...a lasting and loving relationship"
Black is in all of us. Everyone has their own flaws. I stated one of mine is not appreciating enough, which is one of the purpose of my blog. This flaw may sound cheesy, but "appreciating" encompasses a wide area, including socialization, how people view me, etiquette, the meaning of sharing, and expression of love. Now it sounds like it does make a difference to fix this or not!
Professional picking...
Commitment...
...I have learnt this peculiar aspect from my relationships. Blacks are what will hit you and your partner hard in commitment. They will cause trouble and is where ALL your arguments will begin (you must have at least 1 within a year if you have a healthy relationship or else you don't know your partner well enough). If you can't accept or tolerate flaws of your partner, they will annoy and degrade your relationship CONTINUOUSLY and possibly FOREVER. Think of an unpoppable acne that will stay on the middle of your nose forever.
WOOooo~ the Zit is here to stay!
This is why finding a true love is actually impossible and reality hurts. Those who don't believe this won't like the reality of things. You would 'assume' because you and your guy have SO much in common, that things are meant to be. You would 'assume' because he loves and accept you how you are now, he will continue so forever. Like comeon! There's tons of couples out there who married and lived for 30+ years with each other and FINALLY figured they don't like each other. Unless you are both fricking saints, the Blacks will eventually seep into the relationship and cause problems. If you don't do ANYTHING about your Blacks, they will pretty much set you up for a future "GET REAL" conclusion.
There's no 'true' love, that's a fact. BUT you can come close... For those not in the route, get into the game and start eliminating those Blacks!
To connect all this to my one wish, I am willing to commit to fixing my problems on "appreciation" for everything.
I commit reducing my other Blacks.
I commit typing on this blog, not only to express, but to become a ritual.
I commit on following my workout regime, no matter how harsh it may be, to make me a stronger and healthier person.
I commit sharing my views to others, hoping a piece, no matter how small, will influence them.
Not only will these commitments make me a better person (and more 'rare' on the market =] ), but also how others will view me, whether at work or with friends, and especially in developing closer connections with a future husband.
Empowerment~
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Remember if you plan to get married...
Can you actually say and do all those for your love?
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What's your Black?
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Professional picking...Commitment...
...I have learnt this peculiar aspect from my relationships. Blacks are what will hit you and your partner hard in commitment. They will cause trouble and is where ALL your arguments will begin (you must have at least 1 within a year if you have a healthy relationship or else you don't know your partner well enough). If you can't accept or tolerate flaws of your partner, they will annoy and degrade your relationship CONTINUOUSLY and possibly FOREVER. Think of an unpoppable acne that will stay on the middle of your nose forever.
WOOooo~ the Zit is here to stay!This is why finding a true love is actually impossible and reality hurts. Those who don't believe this won't like the reality of things. You would 'assume' because you and your guy have SO much in common, that things are meant to be. You would 'assume' because he loves and accept you how you are now, he will continue so forever. Like comeon! There's tons of couples out there who married and lived for 30+ years with each other and FINALLY figured they don't like each other. Unless you are both fricking saints, the Blacks will eventually seep into the relationship and cause problems. If you don't do ANYTHING about your Blacks, they will pretty much set you up for a future "GET REAL" conclusion.
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There's no 'true' love, that's a fact. BUT you can come close... For those not in the route, get into the game and start eliminating those Blacks!
To connect all this to my one wish, I am willing to commit to fixing my problems on "appreciation" for everything.
I commit reducing my other Blacks.
I commit typing on this blog, not only to express, but to become a ritual.
I commit on following my workout regime, no matter how harsh it may be, to make me a stronger and healthier person.
I commit sharing my views to others, hoping a piece, no matter how small, will influence them.
Not only will these commitments make me a better person (and more 'rare' on the market =] ), but also how others will view me, whether at work or with friends, and especially in developing closer connections with a future husband.
Empowerment~...
Remember if you plan to get married...
I, Tony, take you, to be my husband, my constant friend, my faithful partner in life, and my one true love. On this special holy day, I affirm to you in the presence of God and all those in attendance my pledge and sacred promise to stand by your side as your faithful husband in sickness and in health, in joy and in sorrow, as well as through the good times and the bad. I promise to love you without reservation, comfort you in times of distress, encourage you to achieve all of your goals, laugh with you and cry with you, grow with you in mind and spirit, always be open and honest with you, and cherish you for as long as we both shall live.
-Tony's future vows
Can you actually say and do all those for your love?
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What's your Black?
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WORKOUT
Warmup
- Seated Cycling: 6 min at 108rpm:L11 [178hbps][68cal]
- Crunches 20rep
- Leg raises 24rep
- Two legged plank 1 min
- Side plank 1 min/side
- Shoulder Press 12rep x2, 10rep x1 [20lb]
- Front Raise 12rep x3 [25lb]
- Lunges 12rep x3 [20lb]
- Deadlifts 12rep x3 [20lb]
- Declined Crunches 12rep x3
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6 comments:
wow, tis blacker than the eyes of the black beetle (i don't know whether this insect actually exists). Weed out 'em blackheads! Go for a facial! The facial of life! (insert mystical music here)
Chim... you are so difficult to understand... but I will try my best to understand...
oh, just realized you are tony the panda LOL ^^ no apologize needed, at least my name appear on your blog :P
regarding your vows, new couple can do everything, but not sure how long they could maintain it.
this is gay love...
A super doggy :) Guess you have seen Bolt!
as much as i want to deny i find ur entry to be so true... my black is worry abt my distance relationship :(
oh my gosh! your vow is so beautiful! i really hope i'd be able to say the same to someone special one day. my black is,i have a tendency to hide off my true self and appear to others as someone who appears to be cold... sigh...my lack of confidence is often misunderstood...
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